Can I Get My Boyfriend Back Regardless Of The Situation?

We have all been there wondering how can I get my boyfriend back? A relationship that we were not ready to be over has ended and all we can think about is getting the person back. It is a difficult task but if you just can't get over the one that got away and you don't think your life will be complete without him than there are some things that you should keep in mind with your quest to win him back.

The most important thing in any relationship or any reconciliation is communication. Your ex is not a mind reader. They don't know that you are sitting by the phone waiting and wishing they would call. They don't know that you are watching old videos and downing Ben and Jerry's. You sitting pining over him on your own is not going to let him know that your heart is still his.

You also need to know where he stands. He may be sitting at home dreaming of having you back as well. So tell him how you feel. You may not get the response you want right away but you will never know how he feels and what he is thinking if you don't ask and he will never know you want him back if you don't tell him.

Before you can communicate with your ex, you need to know how you feel. Think of the reasons you broke up in the first place. Now you need to figure out solutions. If the argument was because you did something wrong, fess up, take responsibility and apologize. If they hurt you but you can't get them off of your mind, list all the reasons you fell in love with them in the first place. The more you think of their positive aspects the more you will find. Also, list the things they love about you. This will help bring to mind all the great memories you had together.

If the relationship ended because someone lied or cheated then it is unwise to get back together until the other person knows that it will never happen again. A simple "I'm sorry" isn't enough, trust needs to be earned back. If you are the untrustworthy one than be honest about the reasons for your actions and show you learned from your mistakes.

Give them time to cool off and then contact them by leaving a message or calling them. They are going to be hurt if you did something to cause the break up so give them the chance to work through that pain. Whatever the problem was, it needs to be sorted out and cannot define the any future relationship you may have.

Take care of yourself. You are not going to win him back by sitting in your pajamas binging on Oreos and your favorite tub of ice cream. You guys have spent some time together, you may run into each other, and you want to be looking good. Don't track him down or follow him to places you would never be. Stalking is never attractive. But chances are you are around the same people and places, if they don't see you one of their friends might. Look good and take care of yourself and word will get back to them, and you will be back on their mind.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself or your ex. Things take time and you will both appreciate the chance to grow closer in a healthy way. Rushing things or pushing too hard can cause your ex to run the other way.

Millions of people break up and get back together, we see it all the time. It is never hopeless so be yourself, be positive and remember who your ex is and how you have reached them emotionally in the past. They are the same person they always were and you know how to make them fall in love with you. You did it once so it is possible to do it again!

Watch 2 videos that shows you how to train your ex to treat you better and how not to push your ex away again once you have overcome his or her initial resistance.

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