3 Little Known Secrets To Getting Your Ex Back

Getting your ex back is not always an easy thing to do because you always have to worry about whether you are doing the right thing. The fact is, it is easy to do the wrong things that may end up pushing your ex boyfriend or girlfriend further away. This is something that you will definitely want to avoid.

So, how can you avoid making these mistakes so that you will not risk pushing your ex further away?

Well, here is the trick that will probably apply in many situations. For example, if you feel like doing something, it is probably best to do the opposite instead. In other words, the tactics you are going to use for getting your ex back are going to be controversial.

Now, before you close your browser, hold on and keep reading this article. Even though the tactics that are going to be mentioned seems very unconventional, they have been tested over and over again and have been proven to work in even the most dire situation.

Let's look at some of these techniques.

Controversial Tactic 1

Now, I understand this can be a very hard thing to do. Chances are, if your ex wants to break up with you, you will try to convince or even beg him/her to come back to you. Unfortunately, this is useless most of the time and may even make the situation worse.

So, here is what you should do instead. You want to agree with the break up. Why?

Well, you need to give your ex a chance to miss you. Most likely, your ex is upset with you at this moment. Trying to push him/her to get back together with you will probably not work now.

Controversial Tactic 2

Yes, I know you can't wait to get in touch with your ex again. Yet, this is what you must not do. Remember the rule mentioned above? When you feel like doing something, do the opposite.

Cutting off all communication will help you accept the break up and send your ex the signal that you are really serious about it. Besides allowing your ex to miss you, you will also give your ex the time to get over the reasons for breaking up with you.

It will also benefit you emotionally as you will have the time to cool down, giving you a clearer mind that will definitely help you in getting your ex back

Watch 2 videos that shows you how to train your ex to treat you better and how not to push your ex away again once you have overcome his or her initial resistance.

http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-tactics