Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Win My Girlfriend Back - How To Win My Girlfriend Back Successfully

So you have broken up with your girlfriend and you are feeling very upset about it. The question keeps on popping into your head, "How to win my girlfriend back if she is ignoring me? How to win my girlfriend back if I don't even get the chance to talk to her? How to get back my girlfriend if I seem to be the only one trying?"

Well, if you have been feeling troubled over the questions above, rest assure that you are certainly and definitely not alone. It is not abnormal for your girlfriend to be ignoring you, especially if both of you have just broken up a few days ago.

You may be wondering why is that so. Well, there can be several reasons. First, just after a break up, your girlfriend can be as upset as you, even if she is the one who initiated the break up. She may not want to talk to you for the time being. She may not even be ready to talk to you yet. Therefore, it is understandable that she is avoiding you at the moment.

If this is the case, you should definitely respect her decision. You may be very eager to win your ex girlfriend back as soon as possible. Therefore, you may be tempted to contact her or call her over and over again. Don't do that. This is in fact a very common mistake that many guys made when trying to win their girlfriend back.

By calling your girlfriend over and over again, it only shows that you do not respect her wish and she will only get more irritated. In the worst case scenario, she might even feel so irritated that she decided to cut off all contact with you. This will only make it harder for you to win your girlfriend back.

This is certainly not the outcome that you want. Next, by calling her over and over again, you are indirectly showing her that you are simply acting out of desperation. Well, desperation is not likely going to get you anywhere. It will only tend to push your girlfriend further away and makes it harder for you to get your girlfriend back. You certainly do not want to create unnecessary obstacles in between you and your girlfriend.

By avoid all those common mistakes, your chances of winning your girlfriend back will be so much higher as you will not risk pushing her further away.

Watch 2 videos that shows you how to train your ex to treat you better and how not to push your ex away again once you have overcome his or her initial resistance.

http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-tactics

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