Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Secrets You Should Know About Your Man

Perhaps you have just broken up but you still want to win your ex boyfriend back. While getting your ex boyfriend back is not impossible, it is not easy especially if you do not know what to do.

The fact is, if you want to win your ex boyfriend back, it will be very helpful if you know what are the most common mistakes you should avoid and how men behave.

Perhaps, one of the most common mistakes is to argue over the break up. So, you have to ask yourself this question. Why are you arguing over the break up? Most probably, this is the typical scenario.

Your boyfriend has just decided to break up with you. So, he tries to come up with a reason or two for the break up. But most likely, the reasons given don't seem to make any sense at all. At best, they are very lame reasons.

Due to the fact that you can't accept the reasons given, you may try to convince your boyfriend that the reasons are not valid. In other words, you are trying hard to get him back to your side.

Unfortunately, this is not a debate. Winning the argument is not going to help you win your ex boyfriend back. It will only tend to irritate your boyfriend and push him further away. Therefore, no matter what, never try to argue over the break up.

The next common mistake is to keep on calling your boyfriend again and again. This will probably occur if your boyfriend is not picking up the phone. He may be trying to avoid you. So, you might feel panic and become even more inclined to keep calling him.

Again, this is something that you will not want to do. Calling again and again doesn't look good on you. What you are doing here tells him that you are now desperate. And you know what, desperation is only going to drive your boyfriend further away. Therefore, never attempt to call your boyfriend over and over again, no matter how tempted you are to do that.

Now, here is one secret about men. Men don't like to be nagged at.

And here is the second secret. Men like to be heroes. Or to be more precise, men like to be heroes in the eyes of their women. The point is, your man need to know that you treat him like he is your hero. And that's why nagging is so detrimental to your relationship.

If you keep on nagging at your man, your man is not going to feel like he is your hero.

Watch 2 videos that shows you how to train your ex to treat you better and how not to push your ex away again once you have overcome his or her initial resistance.

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