How To Get Your Ex Back - The Counter Intuitive Way

How to get your ex back if your ex doesn't seem to be doing anything? How to win back your ex if your ex is trying to avoid you? How to get back together if the situation seems very bad? How to get your ex back even if you are the only one trying?

Perhaps, you have been feeling very troubled by the questions above. Your situation may not really be as bad as you think and there may still be hope.

Well, it is still possible to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back even if you are the only one trying. Although there is no guarantee that you will definitely be able to get your ex back, even if you follow the best plan in the world, your chances of succeeding will be so much higher if you can avoid the mistakes that many men and women make when trying to get an ex back.

So, how do you avoid those mistakes? Well, you will have to do it the counter intuitive way. In other words, if you feel like doing something, then it may be a mistake and it will usually be better if you do the opposite instead.

For a clearer explanation, let's look at the following illustration.

Say your ex has just decided to break up with you. Your ex gives you some reasons that you simply find it hard to accept. So, obviously, you will want to argue with your ex. You want to prove your ex wrong.

You want to try whatever ways you can in order to get your ex back. Unfortunately, as mentioned earlier, what you feel like doing is usually not the best option. You will be much better off to do the opposite.

Arguing with your ex is usually not going to help you in your situation. It will only tend to push your ex even further away. Therefore, what you want to do instead is to agree with the break up.

Now, I understand that this is probably a very tough thing to do but there is a reason why you want to do that. You must give your ex the time to miss you again. Remember, if your ex want to break up with you now, it only means your ex is upset with you now. Trying to argue with your ex now is like pouring oil on top of fire.

Watch 2 videos that shows you how to train your ex to treat you better and how not to push your ex away again once you have overcome his or her initial resistance.

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